"Change is inevitable, and yet suffering is not"

I admit that I read Hollywood gossip.  I admit that I read enough of it that I remain for the most part neither shocked nor fazed, I rarely blink...However, for some strange reason the recent scandal of Jesse James allegedly cheating on his wife, Sandra Bullock ‘hurt me’...on a cynical business level I have a feeling that if she and her PR people are able to handle this right she could end up even bigger...on a personal, naive level I hope this is all a big mistake...